Geeky Cat Miusings

October 5, 2008

What if….

Filed under: Furballs — Diana Condolo @ 7:35 am

The scene keeps playing in my mind like a movie: what if I went to see the film at U of T instead of stopping to rent the DVD at the video store and then going home to watch it. Things would have been different - not only would my evening been different in terms of where, when, how, and with whom - but I would still have my wallet.

On Friday evening I was planning to go see Open Your Eyes with a group of people but, because of a long lasting cold, I felt the best thing to do was to go home and have an early night. I didn’t want to miss out on the movie so I called a video store to check if they had this 11 year old movie on hand, and they did. So I stopped at the video store to pick up the movie. That was the last time I saw my wallet. After picking up the video I resumed my trek home. It was fairly crowded on the Bloor subway and I did feel some pressure on my side, but I’m so used to having people brush against me that I did not bother to look. I should have. I just continued on my way thinking everything is cool. I didn’t notice anything was wrong until 24 hours later. I was getting ready to go to Nuit Blanche when I noticed that the zipper on my purse was open and my wallet was gone. I was all distressed. It was hard to believe. I was checking everywhere to see if it fell out but I knew if was stolen. I felt so bad. It is such an invasion of the self and a sense of loss - I absolutely hated the miserable turd that did this.

It is fortunate that the thief did not use my credit cards and I was able to cancel them in time. I will need to get new credit cards, debit card, and all kinds of identification cards. I would have preferred to just give the thief the money in my wallet rather than have to endure the inconvience of having to get new cards.

I know that this is relatively minor in the grand scheme of things, but it is upsetting.

I keep thinking “what if” thoughts. What if I went to the movie downtown instead? What if I paid closer attention to the people surrounding me? What if I looked at the person when I felt brushing at my side?

Fortunately, I was still able to have a fun Saturday night. Of course, I kept thinking about what happened to my wallet, but it was a really nice evening.

I would really like to see my wallet and all the cards again. And I would absolutely love to see the photo I kept in my wallet of Pumpkin and Tammy sitting in a chair. It was taken some 12 years ago - before the digital camera. I don’t think I have a copy of it. It is irreplacable. Please return it to me!!!

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One Response to “What if….”

  1. Miriam Says:

    WHAT IF? WHAT IF? We have all been there with this “What if?”. We can all relate to that. But it is…what is…and cannot change the past but knowing I sound like a broken record and then continue with “learn from this and be more alert in the future”. Many of us have felt invaded and vulnerable and know of the hastle to obtain new identification cards….especially when one is told they need a certain card to get another….I feel for you and most certainly hope your wallet will be returned. Sure wish certain scum bags keep their paws to themselves and not take what isn’t theirs!!!!!!!!I hope they do not a second’s peace for the remainder of their days.

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